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Exploited Sexuality


As a follow up to my post last week about the PSU sexual abuse scandal, I’ve been painfully reminded of how often we refuse to talk about things that really matter, things shrouded in secrecy... Read More

Sexual Abuse Scandal


It has been hard to miss the top news story of the past 14 days on US media outlets–the child sexual abuse scandal that has rocked the campus of Penn State University, engulfing a prestigious... Read More

Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” -Bob Marley


This quote from Bob Marley (1945-1981) caught my attention because it’s poignant, true, honest, pure.

It leaves me questioning, who is worth suffering for?

My children of... Read More

Honoring an abusive parent


Someone recently asked me how can an adult child “honors” an emotionally abusive parent. Sadly, it’s an important question that many face. While there isn’t a blanket answer... Read More

The Desire for Vengeance


I once spoke with a man whose son had been brutally murdered by a close family friend. In the years to follow, the man talked of his burning desire for revenge. He said he wanted to turn this tremendous... Read More

Letting pain breathe


Recently I watched the movie Open Range. It was a Christmas present.

Westerns don’t normally interest me, but this film drew me in. There was one scene, in particular,... Read More

Public support of a teacher who has sex with his student


Had no idea what to write about this morning until I read my online local newspaper this morning.  Headline:  Supporters of teacher who had sex with student flood judge.

A 32-year old... Read More

Leaving is Love


I’d like to share my perspective on abusive relationships.

If a wife is married to an abusive husband, she is not safe. If a marriage is categorized as abusive, it’s dangerous. There... Read More

Hurt to Help


As I was helping someone wrestle through the decision of whether or not to separate from a hard-hearted spouse, she came to a turning point when she realized that the only way her husband was... Read More

A Silent Killer


Google the words Silent Killer and the website that pops up first says:

Many diseases are silent killers in that they are silent (no symptoms or only vague symptoms), and... Read More
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